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Inevitably, the child becomes a part of your life. Her presence can be significant or small, but you cannot ignore her existence. For mothers, the responsibilities, energy consumption, and time invested are far greater than for fathers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2023, there was a movie titled <em>The Vanishing Woman<\/em>. In the ending, the director arranged for the victimized woman to be pregnant. I told my wife at the time that I didn\u2019t like this forced narrative, that a woman&#8217;s value and the meaning of life should not be measured or elevated by having a child. A year and a half later, after having a child of my own, especially a daughter, I realized I needed to revise my earlier statement. A woman can be great, and life can be meaningful, but having children will undoubtedly be a very important thing for her. Raising children only makes her greater.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since the founding of New China, women&#8217;s status has been very high. However, recently, there have been some worrying trends, which make me concerned about my daughter&#8217;s future. First, the domestic economic growth is stagnating. When the social pie can\u2019t grow, the competition between people tends to intensify. In this case, men generally have an advantage over women. Japan is a good example. As China inevitably follows Japan&#8217;s path, it becomes apparent that the status of Japanese women has declined over the past thirty years. Young women, unable to gain new opportunities, often rely more on men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, there is an increasing sentiment of gender opposition. This trend is evident both domestically and internationally. Some forms of feminism in China carry an air of female privilege, which has sparked dissatisfaction among many men. Whether on male-oriented platforms like Bilibili or Zhihu, in the shifts in consumer goods, or in the choice and evaluation of TV shows and movies, a clear trend is emerging. This is even more evident abroad, where politically correct groups face backlash, and right-wing or even far-right conservative ideologies are sweeping the world. In some places in the U.S., women\u2019s right to abortion is even being taken away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Third, the environment is unstable. The past forty years of reform and opening up have been the best in Chinese history. But we cannot expect this period to repeat. History tells us that prolonged peace is rare; wars and turmoil are more common. Although it\u2019s hard to imagine how times of chaos will come, in recent years, local wars around the world are likely to lead to more unrest. I hope the Taiwan issue can be resolved peacefully, and I also hope political power transitions can be smooth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lastly, there is a misalignment in education and values. The rise of AI may create some jobs, but it is expected to eliminate more office jobs. In contrast, manual labor is currently the least impacted. 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